It feels good to be home, but it is so quiet.
Kavaun got used to the commotion of three additional people in the house and tons of one on one contact with
Beata day after day. I got used to it too. With
Beata's mom, that meant one more set of hands to change diapers. With
Beata's sister, that was one more person to put
Kavaun to bed. And with her father, that was one more playmate to make
Kavaun giggle. All of the joy was spread across a family that adores him. The work was shared too and we really appreciated that.
To get everything up to speed on our little guys development:
Kavaun began waving last week. He is standing on his own and contemplating that first step on his own. He has been walking along furniture for almost a month now.
Kavaun had the coolest tent fort at the
Mostafavi house and that along with his Aunt Sara singing to him and his grandpa taking him out in the backyard to look at the flowers and the small waterfall, he was filled with so much love. In fact, all that love kept him up at night!
Of the seven or eight times I have been to Oregon this was the best yet. We had two entire weeks so there was enough down time to enjoy regular family things and also enough time to visit friends and do special things like going to
Chuckie Cheese or to the zoo. From a personal standpoint, I was able to take
Kavaun and snap several very cool pictures in the greater Portland area - the Skyline Avenue area of course, the surrounding wine country and as a family we went to Cannon Beach. On our trips
Kavaun slept most of the time since sleeping at night was out the window for two weeks straight. I think
Kavaun just sort of napped for two weeks straight. His late night naps which most people consider "going to bed" were the longest and that normally meant four or maybe five consecutive hours of sleep at the most. beyond that, it was get him to sleep when we could. As tough as it was from time to time without regular sleep, we were happy to maximize his time with family. One night,
Beata and I were treated by her family to a night downtown to stay in the same hotel we stayed on our wedding night. It was a great anniversary gift - we got to sleep through the night in addition to a great evening on the town. On our final week of visiting I drove up to Seattle and spent two days and a night there as well - shooting more than 300 pictures. I loved it.
In Portland, we had some great conversations at dinner about how
Beata's parents raised them and their philosophy about all this parenting business crept through on a regular basis. As expected,
Kavaun bonded with them like we had been there time since our April visit. A two week stay is the best way to make that trip. If
Beata was a teacher, I think we would have stayed 6 weeks, but I guess teachers are the only ones who can take so many consecutive weeks off from work.
I will have more to contribute later - pictures and words. On the agenda today: cleaning and finally putting the safety locks on our
cabinets.
Kavaun is playing in the
tupperware as I type.
- Nick